![]() ![]() Now I can allow myself to find the right person.” This might sound like a small difference, but just allowing ourselves to take on this more correct understanding of what has happened can free us to move forward. What I love about it is that Hussey does a great job of demystifying men and helping you figure out how you can use this understanding to have more success in your love life. ![]() It takes you through how to find a guy, how to get the guy, and how to keep the guy. We can now say more easily, “Although I’m hurt right now, this person wasn’t right for me. This book is easily one of the best relationship books I've read. It’s a much more manageable type of pain. But by grieving only for your disappointment and dashed expectations, you allow yourself to remain open to the next guy who comes along. I don’t mean to minimize the amount it hurts. And if you look at it this way-that in some regard, he failed to live up to your values and standards, so how could he have been your soul mate?-the pain is likely to be less severe. Consider this: the pain doesn’t come from losing your soul mate, but from the disappointment that this guy wasn’t your soul mate. ![]()
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